is bright, articulate, talented and a kind and gentle person. I've known her for a while now, and see a completely different person than so many of you people do. Please don't base your opinions of my PBGURL on half-truths, hearsay and innuendo. Is it any wonder that those of us who know her and love her feel a lot of pain when some of you delight in bashing her? I have always tried to treat her with dignity and respect and have found that she responds accordingly. LOL Gurl
I'll tell Becka what you said. I know she'll appreciate it. Thank you. Do you remember the first time you met her in person? Do you remember how you felt that night? Think back Gina... and then go sit outside and stare up at the stars and REMEMBER... there's a reason some people are unhappy and feel incomplete. There's a reason some people can be happy and fulfilled no matter what's going on around them....
I have only one more piece of advice for you, and then I will
stop. These boards are not for this, and I'm reluctant to
engage in this conversation here. * Be selective about who
you befriend. Keep good friends. Don't take good friends
for granted, whether they're your customers or non-
customer friends. Don't turn to strangers for help or to
discuss senstive topics. You're too open with everyone.
Trust those who have proven to be true friends. You've got
too much at stake; there's too much at risk to be careless.
To Below. You're right. I need to stop being so obsessed with this crap. I feel like I am always the underdog, and I end up saying shit that gets me into trouble. Honestly; maybe I DO need a self evaluation. I have been trying to stay away by leaving for two or three days at a time where I have NO access to the internet. I love to travel and will spend all my money on that (I have been to Montana two times in the last month and to South Padre for spring break), but as SOON as I come home, I have this shit on my mind. I think, somewhere in my life that something is missing and I am unhappy. Thank you for giving me some CONSTRUCTIVE criticism. I can take that. ( =
Why don't you stop saying the bad things over and over again about Gina. How would like it someone harrassed you like you harrass her. If you want to play real games get your check book out and pay for a lawyer that you might need if you continue. I think some of you would look good in jail. And be smart and don't start on me. I do have the money to back me up. She is human just like the rest of you. Leave her alone. Gentleman.
Don't be so obsessed with standing up for yourself.
Spend some time slowing down. You're always running so
damn fast. You can't keep up with all that's going on around
you. And stop trying to be at the center of everything.
That's inviting trouble, whether you understand that or not.
Slow down. That's cool. Be calm. Calm down. That's key for
you. Calm. Down. But stay upbeat.
I am sorry you feel that way about me. I don't know what I really did to piss so many of you off. I don't think I am a bad person. I honestly do try to be a good person. I can understand how one group of people MAY have been upset with me, but I apologized wholeheartedly about that. Because that got way blown out of proportion. But that is squashed. Please; tell me how am I hopeless? Because I stand up for myself? I would expect all of you to do the same if someone was talking shit on any of you. I don't start shit on here, but when someone posts something about me, I feel I have the right to stand up for myself and reply. Please tell me what is the matter with that?
Yes I admit I have a record. So what? I put this shit on here so that people KNOW who and what they are dealing with. Also I don't interfere with someone's marriage. I don't even talk to that person. That family knows that, so that's all that matters. Tell me this. You say for me to sit back and look at the person I have become. What HAVE I become? You tell me. I am serious. I don't do anything worse than some of the other girls; I am not a thief; I don't rip guys off. But I am the one who stands up for herself on here then gets slammed by you. I don't care if you say I am attracting flies. I will keep doing it if I have to to stand up for myself.
isn't it obvious Gina won't listen to what anyone says. Isn't
is obvious she loves to stir up trouble. Isn't it obvious she
has nothing better to do than make bitter posts here. Yes,
Gina, we all know you fuck for money. We all know that
you do drugs. We all know that you have been causing
trouble with someone's marriage. We know that your ex-
boyfiend killed himself. How do I know that? You said it all
on these boards. Are you idiot or what? Aren't you also an
ex-con? Words around on that one, too. Should you be so
loose with your mouth?
This has nothing to do with your tragic past, and the suicide
of your old boyfriend. This is about who you are and who you
have become. Stop looking back or around to blame the
turmoil and drama that dominate your life. Look at you.
I've been with you, I've paid you before, not long after you
came to Yankton. I've watched you in the club numerous times
and seen the problems that follow you. Damn right I won't tell
you my name. You're a blabber mouth, with no discretion.
Yeah, i will email you. i am going to say this. i am very sorry rebecca b. you are a very good hearted person and honestly don't deserve anything less than the best. to the incognito "walleye guy." fucking coward. you look very stupid on lesterville talking shit before you even know the story. people at the lariat hate me because my ex fiance who was an employee, killed himself and they blamed me. they said my words killed my ex. these were my friends at one time. but they were friends with him longer. go back and reread the lariat blog over the 19 months if you want the truth dummy!
I thought the same thing. He won't tell me anything. I just wish he would tell me what part of the state he lives in. He said he was from So Dak so I assumed he was from the Aberdeen area, but he said he wasn't. I have my weird feelings about it also.
I'm scathing him as we speak! hahaha. Yeah, I was shocked at how much fun we had that night. If only you hadn't f*cked her husband we could all party together! hahaha Seriously though, thank you for accepting my apology. I felt really guilty so I'm relieved we're cool.
I am sorry, too. It's okay, though, cause I understand where you were coming from also. I really really do. Like I said, Josh REALLY IS responsible for this shit, too. I ABSOLUTELY forgive you. Wow. You must be getting tired, huh? It's like, what, 4:20 there???????? LOL!!! Goodnight Sasha. Keep in touch, okay?
Yeah, we're cool again. I thought you were cool shit when I met you. He isn't going to be happy with me either. He told me before to just refrain when I see people on here talking shit. I was like, "ya fucking right." ( = Thank you SO much for the apology. You really don't know HOW much I appreciated it. I am also sorry for my part in this. I was SO proud of Rebecca when Josh told me of her progress that I texted her myself and told her. So I guess it hurt cause I was like, God, we got along DURING this shit, but now she hates me? Josh is also responsible for this shit, too. Don't let him go unscathed. He needs a good ass whippin! ( =
Oh my god!!! i thought the same thing sasha! i really did! i was trying so hard to find out if that was him! oh i am so glad it's not just me being paranoid! did you notice they post the same way josh talks too. i have been trying so fucking hard to find out if that's him. look back over the posts on lesterville's board and aberdeens. this person uses the same words and uses them in the same context as he does. i was going to ask you about that.
Nah, you were pretty pretty easy to hang out with. The problem for you is that a lot of the guys that go to the bars are @$$holes. It happens. Who really cares what people think as long as you know who you really are?
Josh is gonna rip me a new one for starting all of this! Wanna just shake and be friends? lol!!
I am not going to lie to you Sasha. I got my feelings hurt when you threatened me. I am half black half white, so I have been called MANY names so the name calling didn't bother me. ( = But I just wish everyone would see...Sasha, I really am not contacting him anymore. He texted me last week and was like, could you bring my clothes to me? I told him I would give them to Rebecca. He asked me to give them to him instead. I told him he needed to stop texting me. He is the one that reaches out first. I really tried (and eventually was successful) to push him away from me. I just hope he gets the ass chewing he really truly deserves. ( = I am not a bad person Sasha.
I'm gonna laugh my ass off if "Gentlemen" is really Josh! And then I'm gonna go with Carrie Underwood's song and ruin his pretty little Truck. Okay, not really, but I thought that post on Aberdeen's site was kinda funny, since it's possible.
The Nebraska board is another story. If you want to go into that, read ALL of the entries for the last year. That had to do with my ex and all the people he worked with. There are people out there who don't like me, just like I am sure there are people out there that don't like you. But you and Rebecca said it yourselves at the 2 that night we were all drinking, I am a hard person NOT to like. Again; going off what YOU TWO told me that night. Maybe you were too drunk and don't remember. You may think a lot of people don't like me, but I bet if you ask around one on one to the dancers and the customers, more people like me than you think.
ROFLMAO!!! Talk about men lying!!! Don't worry, they'll be some serious ass chewing. I'm too tired to care right now!
Josh asked me in the past if I posted and I told him no. It's the truth. I don't lie. And to be honest with you Gina, I've never blamed you for any of the mess. He's the one who walked into the 2 and HE's the one that made the choices he made. I hope you can believe that.
I don't believe you when you say that this is the first time you posted on here. Josh told me a while back that he suspected you and YES REBECCA of talking shit about me on here. So again, Sasha, take some responsibility. If you would have put your name, this would have never gone as far as it did. Why DID you start talking shit about me on here? You can say what you want; think what you want, Sasha. Also; you need to take that shit up with Josh about him telling me you were hitting on him. I am not high or stupid. Just going off what I was told. Also, it would hav been Kacie. But I was the dumb fuck to take the bait. Why isn't Josh getting his ass jumped for any of this?
This is almost comical. Gina, I don't care if you believe me or not, but I have NEVER posted on this site before. If you have a membership you can probably check the ISPs on each post and actually track who they belong to. From what I've gathered on all the message boards in SD and NE there are quite a few people that have a low opinion of you... whether they're right or wrong, they're out there. I, however, am not one of them... as long as you don't insult my best friend. I didn't put my name because I assumed you'd know who it was and I didn't know if you remembered my name... that's why I referred to being her best friend.
I have never insulted you. Just pointed out the facts. You started it. I'm finishing it.
Are you high or just plain stupid? I've known Josh for 10 years and think of him like a brother. I have never posted on this site and would never have until I read your "Food for Thought" comment. I could care less about your 'relationship' with Josh... just don't insult his wife.
YOU need to take some responsibility for this because MOST OF THIS SHIT WOULD HAVE NEVER STARTED if it wasn't for you talking shit on me the last two months on here. Rebecca is getting the brunt of this because YOU wouldn't put YOUR name on here. Heh, YOU need a dose of your OWN advice, crazy lady. Why are you out east now? Why don't you tell Rebecca how YOU put the moves on Josh? Josh told me YOU made him feel really uncomfortable a while back; and that you put the moves on him. Ask him.
I've BEEN willing to let this shit go, but shit always gets brought back up again. Quit throwing this shit in my face. I don't even talk to Josh like that anymore. If someone is going to talk shit on me, better believe I am going to respond. I would expect you to do the same if someone was talking shit on you. You should ask Rebecca the times (PLURAL) I have told her I was going up to Yankton to work so she would know to watch Josh. I got it to where Josh couldn't come into the 2 while I was working. And I am not hurting anymore. But blame ME; not him. Like I said, if someone is talking about me I am going to respond. I thought it was her since no one ever put their name. Sincerely, Gina
After reading the posts about Gina and Josh, and knowing something about the situation, it's clear Gina is delusional.
Josh is screwy and messed up, too, but omg how did two such lunies meet up and mess up so bad?
I'm really sorry that I reacted in anger, Gina. Becka is my best friend and I love her. I would never physically hurt you and shouldn't have tried to do so emotionally. It's easier to blame you for everything than to look at the big picture.
I hope you can forgive me for responding in anger, and let it go. I'm not sure what else to say except I hope you have a good night.
You create your own world of chaos. You are a grown woman who makes her own choices... so quit bitching about them and deal with them. If you don't like your life, change it. If you do like your life, great. You never would have written your previous posts if you weren't still hurting over what's happened, and I'm sorry for that. But mistakes DO happen and somehow the world keeps turning....
Wow. When were you threatened physical harm? Rebecca doesn't know anything about the posts, I was the one who responded. I know for a fact that she doesn't hate you. She's forgiven you, whether you care or not... whether you deserve it or not. Maybe you should reread your previous posts. You were mean, spiteful, and cruel to someone who has never done anything to YOU......
Hello? is this planet earth? am i by myself? am i the only one talking now? am i talking to myself? lol. i just want to know why i was threatened on here. is this josh's friend merle? or rebecca's best friend sasha? i can't believe i got threatened. this is fucking crazy. why are you all throwing hate on me when i haven't even done anything? believe me when i say i am not the one you are looking for. but if you want to kill me come and do it. i don't give a fuck. i don't want to, but i am not scared to die.
Gina here again. Got a couple questions for you. Are you Josh's best friend or Rebecca's best friend? Second one is what the fuck did I do to Rebecca lately that would make her hate me so much? Like you said, Josh's heart always was with Rebecca. I NEVER said it wasn't. And she knows that. All of you need to make Josh admit that he has been the first one to contact me. Also ask him what I told him a couple weeks ago. I TOLD HIM HE NEEDED TO STOP TEXTING ME BECAUSE OF YOU REBECCA. Ask him. Ask Jason or Matt B. if you want to know what they thought of him BEFORE me. I am not the first nor the last. So am I still being threatened? And why?
Congratulations on being a size 2 Rebecca. I am a size 3. You are smaller than me. Anyhow, going back to my point that everyone lies. You are absolutely right. I guess it's the desire guys have about wanting to impress the dancer and vice versa so both ends start to lie. Yeah, it was you that he went home to every night, so I don't know what you are trying to say. I played the game, too. He gave me a lot of money at first. Otherwise, I would have never looked at him. I didn't even know who he was. But he knew who I was. Ask him. Believe me Sweetheart; I never was the gullible one. In your heart, you know that Rebecca Barber.
Rebecca, I know you lost a bunch of weight. I texted you and congratulated you. I told you that you were my size now (REMEMBER???). You and I had plenty of talks and texts about all of this and you know it. I told you I wasn't going to fight you for Josh. I told you I was done. I haven't seen him for a very long time Rebecca. And to your best friend...my boob job isn't hideous. Believe that. But everyone is entitled to their opinion and theirs doesn't mean SHIT to me. I have been through a lot worse LOL. You proved my point about EVERYONE lying though. Does it make you feel good that he tells the girls lies? I told you from the very get go he would never leave you, Rebecca.
To the person who threatened me. i am going to see about filing an incident report with the yankton county authorities; i have been threatened on the internet. if something does happen to me, this will be documented. also, josh is still the one who contacts me first. if you really believe that i am still the one reaching out first, we can go through phone records in depth if we have to. emails also! you need to tell josh barber to leave me the fuck alone! i moved on back in february! jason told he likes maryjane now. matt b. said he is a womanizer. so it's not me with the problem.
Well let me say this. josh used to text me a lot and email me alot. i was done with him and he wouldn't leave me alone!!! so go ahead with your fucking threats!!! if something happens to me...well you're a smart person right????? you people in vermillion will be the first people authorities will turn to.
I totally agree, Gina. It's so funny that the REAL lie is when they make dancers believe that they'd EVER leave their families for them. Afterall, dancers who get high and work outside the bar aren't really the kind you take home to meet the parents, are they? Never forget who's REALLY playing the game. It's their wives they go home to every night and its their families that they're with every holiday. Dancers are objects of entertainment. It's their wives who hold the key to their hearts.... They will ALWAYS be the number one girl... no matter what lies you choose to believe. Whose REALLY the gullible one?
You don't think the men know that the dancers lie? the men lie, too. when a dancer asks a guy in the club "are you married, " the oh-so-important wedding band gets slipped off onto the floor and the foot goes over the band. it happens more often than not. or the men just say "no, i am not married." roflmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Everyone is full of shit here. Husbands trying to tame dancers; Wives thinking that their husband is faithful and REALLY LOVES YOU!!! Ya right. They wouldn't have to hear the dancers LIES if YOU MADE THEM HAPPY AT HOME...food for thought. No...NO food for thought. You might eat the "food for thought, " big girl. lol!!!
Sorry ladies but Terry is off the market. He lives with a girlfriend of mine who is a sweetheart in the Norfolk area. However, I don't really know Terry. But any man that has her is lucky! They seem to be very much in love.
Tall tales and bs are what characterize all strip clubs in small towns. The dancers generally can't keep track of all the stories they tell, so the discrepancies mount up. It becomes humorous. You can't take any of it seriously. It's weird how the strip club scene -dancers, bouncers, waitresses, owners- attracts so many people who can't abide by honesty and truth.
Is this the same Terry that told everyone he was a survivor contestant? And the same Terry told everyone how he "saved a child in the HyVee parking lot? And the same Terry that was shot 3 times in the Military? And the same Terry that said he received 2 Purple Hearts and a Bronze Star? And the same Terry that retired from the Military? And the same Terry thas has a bleeder in his brain? The same Terry that was in a Army commerial?. He was such a great HERO...And the same Terry that borrowed several hundred dollars from Jeff and didn't pay him back.... The list could go on and on!!! He was a great bouncer....but you couldn't believe anything he said. Just ask Ice.
Just wondering what the dancers thinks about women coming to the club? I'm a straight woman, but just like to watch and touch other women on occasion. Do the dancers like women to come in and if so do they give private dances to the women as well?
Terry was very special to everyone he encountered, and i
know he loved the owners and the staff at the bars. he always
said they were family. but i don't think he's worked here for
at least a year or more, so lets let him live his life, and pray he
is happy and healthy, and talk more about the babes that
dance!!! love ya terry!!!!
He never roughed people up just because he "could." Some bouncers at some clubs can get pretty mean just because they're "the bouncer." Terry was never like that. Terry's way to resolve conflict WAS NOT to get physical, if possible. He never was rubbing up on the girls or touching them all the time like some of the other employees or doormen. That is what the person means by saying he treated everyone with respect.
First the person says the Cockatoo sucks, then the person
says Terry sucks. Why respond at all to this nonsense?
Ignore the nonsense. You cannot change the mind of
someone who is mindlessly mean-spirited.
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