It does not matter if the girls really think that you are loser and dread the thought of you. How could you not be, a married man coming to a strip club. Or a single guy who can't hook up with a decent girl. As long as you pay they will try to make you feel like you are not the loser that you really are.
Excellent point about Natasha. Yeah, we all know "it's about the money" (how could we possibly miss it on this forum with all the philosophers expounding on it daily)....but...there's an old saying about "penny wise, dollar foolish." Those dancers who can make you feel, at the time, that it ISN'T "about the money", no matter what the reality is, are the ones who will continue to get my money. Ones like Natasha...who hit and run as the previous poster mentioned...I stopped giving them anything a long time ago. And the thing is, there ARE some really good girls who will play the game this way where they don't make you FEEL like just a money-giver, so don't waste your time on the Natashas.
It IS about the money, and Natasha's won't get any more of mine. There is a slough of other dancers who put forth a little effort to make you feel like they enjoy the time they spend with you. It's part of what I expect. You made the point perfectly. Other girls give you more for the money.
Gents, time is money. If there is another loser waiting in the wings to give the dancer money she will get there ASAP before the loser spends it with someone else. Remember it is all about the money and nothing else. The dancers don't even like their boyfriends, why would they like the customers. It is about money and only money.
You have a point there, amigo. I danced with Natasha the other day. I wonder if she is trying to set the record for least time spent with customers before and after dances. She really needs to get a clue. I forgot, for a while, why I don't dance with her. I don?t think I?ll have that memory lapse about her again. She was in such a hurry, I thought the building may have been on fire.
I don't think Iris works at HB's any more. As I have not seen her for a while. I called HB?s the other day asking if Iris was working and the girl who answered the phone; immediately said, no. Normally the girl answering will say; let me check the schedule, and if the girl you are asking about is not scheduled, the hostess will say she is not working today but she may come in as a walk on. If you find out Iris is working at a different club please post the name of her new club on this board so all of us Iris fans can visit her at her new club.
Bree - warm, friendly, fun. Makes a sumpreme effort to make you feel welcome. Also puts special effort into her LD's, (for me anyway, YMMV, I guess). My current fave.
Thalia - Great personality, great bod, sweet dance. The total package.
Natasha - Flawless bod (the perfect rack), and really fun (and funny). You almost can't get past the bod, but she is completely charming, as well. Seems to get mixed reviews, but she has great appeal to me.
You're either, a man coming in to spend money, and to get a couple dances.
Or your dancer, working, trying to make some money.
Either way we're all having fun, aren't we?
Well at least I'm having fun now that Bailey is back!
And if she isn't your taste, who is?
There is nothing wrong with what the guys are doing ... or the girls. This is all in good fun. What is wrong is the girls leading on the addicted guys into thinking there will be more to the relationship. I understand maximizing your dollars from your regulars, but is it really worth it to destroy mens lives for the few extra bucks you Might get out of them. Be nice to them, tell them they are hot, tell them you love riding them in the back... you know .... all the usual lies, thats ok... but just dont promise what your not willing to give.
want to know how good this clubs is.. I'm from STL and you know how clubs are here... LOL...is touching allowed.. Is there better clubs available.. i dont want to pay $$ and smell the girls here i want some real contact... let me know. thx
HBs is a pretty dull place.
Stage shows and lap dances...that's pretty much it!
Neither mgmt, the dancers or the customers want any problems and there never is.
The place is a cash cow for the owner so they aren't going to do anything to screw it up.
I've read that the owner (Mike Wellek or Welleck or Weller) has constant problems with the IRS and the law in general; does HB's ever get raided and am I risking arrest myself if I go there as a customer?
Almost every abuser was a victim of abuse themself. They do deserve some compassion, but that doesn't completely absolve them from guilt. Men who frequent strip clubs were almost always starved for affection or abused as kids. The dancers prey on that. It doesn't bear the stigma that a man would carry for taking advantage of a battered woman. It's pretty much the same thing though, and no more excusable.
Guys, RELAX. The dancers are victims. There lives turn out to be just as bad as the addicted customers. Think about how many guys they sit on each night. They walk around half naked for their shifts having to get close to disgusting loser guys. Think about the type of guys they end up with as significant others in there real lives. There lives suck. Dont blame them they have been victimized at such a high level they can no longer be held accountable.
As far as blame goes, when a dancer is aware she is fueling an out of control addiction for her own profit, I say she desrves her share of the blame. I think most dancers are aware that this is what they do with a lot of their regulars. They have a choice of other lines of work. I could sell drugs and make more money, but I don't, and just because it's within the law (barely), that doesn't mean they aren't participating in victimizing people who are out of control.
a store selling porn is on more on a par with the liquor store. A dancer acually participates in a personal act, and builds a "relationship" to get your bucks. That's a whole different ball game, IMHO.
bit of an oversimplification, honey. What you do is the equivalent of serving crack to crack addicts. I do believe that certain dancers are ignorant of this fact - smart as a bag of hair, as someone else here put it. Others are well aware of what they are doing. One even claims to be studying to be a shrink. Feeding and exploiting people's addictions today, so she can cure them in the future! I'm not sure I believe her claim, but if it were true, it really demonstrates a sociopathic focus on getting what she desires, no matter the means.
lith is lithuanian. oh and for the guy thats bitching below that you say all dancers want is money and they steal it all from you.... well what the hell is it that you want....your dick rubbed. we do something for you and you pay us for it. we don't steal it. Its bussiness buddy so bitch about something else. Its your problem and your fault you decided to spend more than you can afford. If you were smart you would have known better. We just do our job of entertaining you and making sure you have a good time for which you pay. We are not there to be your little princess and hear your problems for free. You pay you psychologist don't you?
RE LITH, Strippers, It could not be said better every slut bitch working at this place has one goal stealing all the money they can and if you get fucked in the process they could care less, you are nothing to them but a supply of cash, I went overboard for one named Peche years ago and I am still paying the price for that no good slut going on seven years later, I can honestly say if I could get my hands on her now I could beat her to death andnot think twice about it, so the next time you fools go in there remember they could care less about you.
A good rule of thumb; come into HB's with the only the cash you plan to spend for the night and no credit cards; if u leave the club to get more cash and come back the same nite ur addicted and should seek professional help (seriously)
If you want a nice girl go to church and find her. If you go to HB's looking for one it does not matter what country she comes from she is a slut, open your eyes, look at what she does for a so called liviing. Go ahead make excuses for her, under it all she is still the same, a girl doing sex acts for money. Don't just look at the pretty outside package, because it's rotten on the inside !!!!
whatever you do don't tell diana you are in love with her. dancers wait for the signs you are in love and then ask for money and gifts you would never give them if you were thinking straight. every instint you have you need to think the oppisite right now.
Hey guys whats up? To all those in HB on Friday night, I was the one who dropped the loaded condom in the urinal.......have a very good session with my favorite girl! I also met a very nice waitress in there who's face I'd like to paint.
If u are one of the guys that has hsi "girl" it is a great place to coem to
I was there for some buddies last night and we got pestered by the ugliest women I ever seen in here. the ones that were good looking would dance find their regular and be gone for 30 minutes.
I love the one with leather outfit that stands by the booth waiting for her regular to come in. That was the highlight for us... just watching her waiting for her ship to come in!
I strongly disagree. There are different motivations for different girls. A lot of these girls are looking for sugar daddies. I know one that will openly admit it. The are obviously driven by the money, so think about how much sense that makes.
You?re so right. EVERY one of these girls has fooled around with customers outside the club, even though they ALL claim they don?t. It?s a dirty little secret they keep from their husbands and boyfriends, but it keeps the big dough flowing in.
I came across some interesting reading the other day, 99% of all strippers will say they never date customers, but the fact is 99% of all strippers have at one point dated or met someone from the club outside of work. Now, you might think the more money you spend on them the more likely you are to end up with a stripper girlfriend. I strongly believe the more money you spend the less likely it is. You know why? You fall in the SUCKER category REAL FAST. If your mission is to get a stripper girlfriend don't go all the time and don't go for more then two dances if you like the girl. Next time you come in go for one or ZERO. If you are a regular... go to some other place.
Yesterday I went to have a drink 15 minute after not being there for two months just to say hi to an old addictied freind just like me but not here anymore instead a massasise place were I get to bang the ladies to 160 for an hour...and to think I started out with 15, 000 ending up with 0. I coundutve countacting my pimp a long time ago if I found it... live and learnI feel sorry for all the guys starting out as i did dress up nice for these ladies and will edveually go bangrupe
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