Damn, who was that stripper with a bad case of "fudge thong" tonight?!? I mean WTF was that, if you want to make money? I guess maybe she caters to the customers with a statological fetish. Nothing like customer service. As for me, as soon as I saw that shit [literally!], my penis sent a message to my brain that he was purely on beer disposal duties for the night. I sure as hell wasn't going anywhere near that rank box! Have fun guys! Oh, and CU Next Tuesday... Yeah right, you funckin' CUNT!
You now have a new customer. You can only be lied to for so long. The two of you have always been honest.Plus you know how to dance.Your both gorgeous and know how to have fun.I am your secret but not so secret admirer.
Leila did you see J.P. See you soon.
You look veddy veddy nice as a brunette. Great choice. White jacket, flowers, tomato juice what a lucky woman. Dior boots chinchilla jackets are in your future. Forget the past look toward the future.I hope to be there.Dont forget im 62.
Hey guys, vote for me on the stripper Hot or Not link . . . . . .please, pretty please with Cum on it for me to lick off
If you know where I work, cum up to me and say you saw me on this site and voted me a 10 and I'll give you what you want !
Our contribution will be your salvation. This forum is exactly the place to save those who have wandered in the wrong direction. Your salvation and the happiness of your families will be all of our reward.
This philosophy and "do-gooding" is making my head spin. This isn't the place for it. This a review board for rating the dancers and experiences of the club, not a place to save your soul. I would suggest if you REALLY think this business is evil, start your own path to righteousness by stopping your coming to a strip club forum and go to the cancer research forum or maybe a save the whale forum or something so you can contribute to something important.
I think many of the dancers would quit if they could. They recognize the problems. The biggest obstacle is their dependency on the money. They don't have the ability to earn the kind of money they make at HB anywhere else.
You are in a unique position to convey a message that the HB dancers need to hear, with a credibility that no one but an ex-dancer could have. Have you ever thought of doing that directly and personally? You could really have an impact on someone?s life. The info on the links you posted is really good stuff.
You do realize that most dancers actually hate it when *that* happens, right? And even if anybody has such a list, I don't think it would be very bright to post that here. Kind of like posting the names of dancers who give *extras* in the club. Nothing good can come of sharing that information on a public forum. All that said, there are a few dancers who try to entice customers by saying "I'll make you cum" or something like that. So just wait until she finds you, or you find her... Then again, you might just want to try getting laid in the real world.
I was wondering if this place is better than dancers or diamonds in west chicago. I haven't been to a strip club in a couple of years. I use to go to dancers all the time but two of my favorite girls left and the place got boring.
Relax, dude. She's probably just off work for like 6-weeks getting her boob job. That's what she was talking about last time I saw here there. And last I heard, I think she was talking about having them done in September.
I find your post to be quite hopeful, because of it?s honesty, the realization that the recovery will be tough, and your reliance on god. i hope others (both dancers and customers) open their eyes like you did. god bless you, my dear. your post is the best thing i've ever seen here.
Good to see someone taking the high road. I hope your comment about the X dancer was a joke albeit in very bad taste. If it was not seek immediate help. If it was seek immediate help. To the X-dancer: Good luck to you, I am sure that you will find what you are looking for. To all of the current dancers who believe that deception and dishonesty will not come to haunt them. Good luck to you because you are going to need it.
Going to a strip club is entertainment, just like going to a baseball game. You get emotionally attached to the girls and you get emotionally attached to the team, just look at how Cubs' fans reacted after some poor dufus caught a foul ball in a playoff game. It's just the way life is. No one preaches that baseball is bad for you. When one goes to a strip club, he is SUPPOSED to expect "lies" and "leading ons." If you don't, then you're just a fool. Stop making it to be more than it is. Its entertainment that you pay for and it's the stripper's JONB to make you feel "like it's real." If you can't tell perception from reality or you spend more than you should, it's not the stripper's fault. It's yours for being stupid.
Through your faith in god????????????????? ha! god sent you there to be the usless fucking whore that you were ment to be. go tell someone who gives a fuck about your stupid story. dance for me, cunt!!!
That?s a pretty na´ve statement. Any dancer who has regulars is leading them on in some way ? at the very least by making it seem as if she has a personal interest in them, at worst by making outright promises she never intends to keep. All regulars are sex or relationship addicts, so pretty much every dancer, is feeding on mental illness. Many even know it and admit it, but you dancer friend are probably just not forthright about it, or don?t have enough between the ears to realize it. The ex-dancer who confessed to it on the board, just has a tighter grip on reality than your dancer buddies. I find it somewhat admirable. I find you to be clueless.
it said more about her than the rest of it.If she was that way that was her choice.Just like being a thief.I know many girls who aren't that way and dance.They are fun to be with, don't play games and don't take advantage of people, but you do have to watch out for the many that do.
Nice to see an honest assessment of what the lifestyle was like and what it did to you. There's a few people on the customer side and the dancer side that are struggling to pull away from this, and your direct statements confirm what we suspect. It's helpful to hear. Best wishes on your efforts in the "clean" world.
My message contained a figure of speech. I no longer walk into HB. I danced there for over 5 years and have spent the last couple years trying to get my life together. Through my faith in God I will be successful. Relationship wise I struggle to find a good man to be in my life. Most good men will not accept a former dancer for the long term. Sexually things will never be the same. I also struggle with the deception that took place. There were many men I took advantage of or who were stupid enough to waste their emotions and money at HB. I recognize the pain that was caused to them and their families both emotionally and financially. I am sorry that I ever danced and I am sorry for the outcome of my actions.
How about stop being a retard.
If you don't like strippers, don't go.
If you want to reform people, become a priest, start a church, but fuck off.
If you have moral confusion because you live strip clubs but are some sort of retard that preaches to strippers to quit, take care of your own fucked up sexuality and life first.
re:new dancers i agree with david about new dancers vs. old dancers. the older ones definitly know how to do it. some advice to the newer dancers.... when you go in the back just do what comes naturally, you dont have to be like all the other girls. dont just sit there and move around. guys pick up on that stuff really easily. you can be recommended (or not) by that guy and word gets around quick. i find out quickly who gives bad dances and who to avoid.
Walking in HB brings many sympathetic thoughts looking at the dancers with lives that will be forever scarred from their experience in the sex industry. Men who can't obtain companionship without having to pay for it. Men who are unable to have a fulfilling mariage.
To the poster that claims about the older dancers there, well it is the best thing that could happen. The older dancers are the ones that really know how to please, and the youngers ones do not even turn me on. It's like having an idiot trying to know what to do with a dick.
I just met the new Dakota last night and WOW!!! I wont annoy loyal fans of the gorgeous, blonde, smart, funny, athletic former Dakota we the chance to know years ago, but this new girl (only comes once a week - saturday) really blew me away. (Hey doll, if you read this, I came back to the club but by that time you were mobbed and the club was packed. Sorry, I hope to see you soon!)
If you have the money to burn then spend it, if you dont then re-evaluate your decisions. Disneyland is expensive also are you going to go if you cant afford it. Just keep in mind there both fun places, but you cant take it home with you.Plus the rides are much better at hbs and if you want to get wet go to a water park.
how things goin. life's good here but definatly miss chi. how's DB looking. still old? u should have my email by now. i seriously would like a painting. anyway say hi sometime. i will be in town 22-24th of sept. see ya then hopefully
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