You do realize that most dancers actually hate it when *that* happens, right? And even if anybody has such a list, I don't think it would be very bright to post that here. Kind of like posting the names of dancers who give *extras* in the club. Nothing good can come of sharing that information on a public forum. All that said, there are a few dancers who try to entice customers by saying "I'll make you cum" or something like that. So just wait until she finds you, or you find her... Then again, you might just want to try getting laid in the real world.
I was wondering if this place is better than dancers or diamonds in west chicago. I haven't been to a strip club in a couple of years. I use to go to dancers all the time but two of my favorite girls left and the place got boring.
Relax, dude. She's probably just off work for like 6-weeks getting her boob job. That's what she was talking about last time I saw here there. And last I heard, I think she was talking about having them done in September.
I find your post to be quite hopeful, because of it?s honesty, the realization that the recovery will be tough, and your reliance on god. i hope others (both dancers and customers) open their eyes like you did. god bless you, my dear. your post is the best thing i've ever seen here.
Good to see someone taking the high road. I hope your comment about the X dancer was a joke albeit in very bad taste. If it was not seek immediate help. If it was seek immediate help. To the X-dancer: Good luck to you, I am sure that you will find what you are looking for. To all of the current dancers who believe that deception and dishonesty will not come to haunt them. Good luck to you because you are going to need it.
Going to a strip club is entertainment, just like going to a baseball game. You get emotionally attached to the girls and you get emotionally attached to the team, just look at how Cubs' fans reacted after some poor dufus caught a foul ball in a playoff game. It's just the way life is. No one preaches that baseball is bad for you. When one goes to a strip club, he is SUPPOSED to expect "lies" and "leading ons." If you don't, then you're just a fool. Stop making it to be more than it is. Its entertainment that you pay for and it's the stripper's JONB to make you feel "like it's real." If you can't tell perception from reality or you spend more than you should, it's not the stripper's fault. It's yours for being stupid.
Through your faith in god????????????????? ha! god sent you there to be the usless fucking whore that you were ment to be. go tell someone who gives a fuck about your stupid story. dance for me, cunt!!!
That?s a pretty na´ve statement. Any dancer who has regulars is leading them on in some way ? at the very least by making it seem as if she has a personal interest in them, at worst by making outright promises she never intends to keep. All regulars are sex or relationship addicts, so pretty much every dancer, is feeding on mental illness. Many even know it and admit it, but you dancer friend are probably just not forthright about it, or don?t have enough between the ears to realize it. The ex-dancer who confessed to it on the board, just has a tighter grip on reality than your dancer buddies. I find it somewhat admirable. I find you to be clueless.
it said more about her than the rest of it.If she was that way that was her choice.Just like being a thief.I know many girls who aren't that way and dance.They are fun to be with, don't play games and don't take advantage of people, but you do have to watch out for the many that do.
Nice to see an honest assessment of what the lifestyle was like and what it did to you. There's a few people on the customer side and the dancer side that are struggling to pull away from this, and your direct statements confirm what we suspect. It's helpful to hear. Best wishes on your efforts in the "clean" world.
My message contained a figure of speech. I no longer walk into HB. I danced there for over 5 years and have spent the last couple years trying to get my life together. Through my faith in God I will be successful. Relationship wise I struggle to find a good man to be in my life. Most good men will not accept a former dancer for the long term. Sexually things will never be the same. I also struggle with the deception that took place. There were many men I took advantage of or who were stupid enough to waste their emotions and money at HB. I recognize the pain that was caused to them and their families both emotionally and financially. I am sorry that I ever danced and I am sorry for the outcome of my actions.
How about stop being a retard.
If you don't like strippers, don't go.
If you want to reform people, become a priest, start a church, but fuck off.
If you have moral confusion because you live strip clubs but are some sort of retard that preaches to strippers to quit, take care of your own fucked up sexuality and life first.
re:new dancers i agree with david about new dancers vs. old dancers. the older ones definitly know how to do it. some advice to the newer dancers.... when you go in the back just do what comes naturally, you dont have to be like all the other girls. dont just sit there and move around. guys pick up on that stuff really easily. you can be recommended (or not) by that guy and word gets around quick. i find out quickly who gives bad dances and who to avoid.
Walking in HB brings many sympathetic thoughts looking at the dancers with lives that will be forever scarred from their experience in the sex industry. Men who can't obtain companionship without having to pay for it. Men who are unable to have a fulfilling mariage.
To the poster that claims about the older dancers there, well it is the best thing that could happen. The older dancers are the ones that really know how to please, and the youngers ones do not even turn me on. It's like having an idiot trying to know what to do with a dick.
I just met the new Dakota last night and WOW!!! I wont annoy loyal fans of the gorgeous, blonde, smart, funny, athletic former Dakota we the chance to know years ago, but this new girl (only comes once a week - saturday) really blew me away. (Hey doll, if you read this, I came back to the club but by that time you were mobbed and the club was packed. Sorry, I hope to see you soon!)
If you have the money to burn then spend it, if you dont then re-evaluate your decisions. Disneyland is expensive also are you going to go if you cant afford it. Just keep in mind there both fun places, but you cant take it home with you.Plus the rides are much better at hbs and if you want to get wet go to a water park.
how things goin. life's good here but definatly miss chi. how's DB looking. still old? u should have my email by now. i seriously would like a painting. anyway say hi sometime. i will be in town 22-24th of sept. see ya then hopefully
Was in last night. The talent pool has really dwindled. Cindy was the hottest girl there. She must be close to a 10 year veteran. The place is a dump and really needs some new young quality talent. It is a bad thing when the hottest girl in a strip club is over 30. There are plenty of better places to spend your money.
There is also usually someone from the gov't in HBs posing as a customer. That's why everyone is carded (even the regulars). If you are new customer at HBs, one of the older dancers (like Erica or Heather) will approach you at some point during the night and ask a few innocent-sounding semi-personal questions. Also, mgmt runs plates on cars in the lot as well. These are all attempts by mgmt to smoke out moles in the club.
I think your confused about Collettes extras. Just because she dances for the entire thirty minutes doesnt make it an extra. She does her job! Unlike the others you waste time waiting for there drink to be served or taking there sweet time undressing and getting on your lap. They all now how to do as little as possible. Collette on the other hand gives you quality.
Please bash more girl's, so I can go dance with them.I finally figured out to dance with them instead of the ones that are raved about on here.You dancer's who write on here bashing are going to lose some cash now.
No I have not found a painter yet. You are the only painter for me.
Alabama is boring, but its home now. You will probably see DB tonight if he doesn't fall asleep.. He has been sick. Can you believe how he is defending Leila? Some one pissed him off.
Hope all is well with you. Take care of my boy he is still so lost.
To continue to suspect EVERY comment on here is "posted by a dancer." I'm sure some are, but I'm REALLY sure that "all" are not because I've posted often myself. You guys who cry "dancer" every time a post is made positive about a dancer look ridiculous. I'm sure you're right on occasion, but not nearly as often as you think...as I've myself posted and was acused of being a dancer, more than once. C'mon, dancers aren't the only ones on the forum.
Liela did not write the comments about herself, I did. I am an X regular of hers. I guarantee she would never write anything about herself on this or any other site. She is a very private person and if she reads all of these comments she will not very happy to see them.Believe what you wish about her intelligence. If you new here true story you would not be so critical. She has had it a lot tougher than any of usever will.
I noticed two empty county sheriff squad cars just outside the entrance last night as I was leaving HBs WED about 1AM. The cops must have been inside the club. Was anything going on or was it just a routine check?
No it would just mean that the person made some bad choices and did some incorrect things. Just like the dancers. Knowing that you have made a mistake is the first step in correcting it and making sure that it is not repeated.
lofty aspirations? I have listened one of these ?brainy? girls make such claims for a while now. I happen to know that this one?s story with regard to these career endeavors is not true. She?s not aware that I know the truth, so she continues to pile fabrication on fabrication. It?s astounding to listen to her go to town with her B.S. and soooo much fun to watch her put on this act thinking that I?m just eating up her story with a spoon.
I can not speak intelligently about most of these girls, but whoever put in the comment about Leila being stupid has apparently never had a conversation with her. Liela is most intelligent and well spoken women I have ever met. She is also quit ambitious. You idiot, you obviously did not know that she is on her way to law school. How many morans do you know who attend law school?? If I were you I would not get into any philisophical discussions with her because she will tear you apart.
You give Farrah, Leila, Baily, Monica, Cindy, Camille, Collette money? With the exception of Bailey, the other six have a combined IQ of my shoe size. If you are going to give cash to a girl, make sure she has the looks and the brains. Makes for a better experience. Other than that, you get a grind and meaningless conversation.
I do the oppisite I dance with the girl's that get bashed on here.I figure it's the other dancer's writing bad stuff about them.Also I never dance with the ones that they say are the best.Because the same dancer's names appear on here over and over.
I have stepped in this place a couple of times to just see what is going on. all i can say...beware of the evil women!!!! guys if you stay to long you will be playing russian roulette with yourself. there is a collection of "unbalanced" personalities with self distructive habits dancing to music and collecting cash from anyone who will pay. beware of those who are evil!!!!!!
How does everyone remember all the strippers names. I have
gone to HB at least 10 times in the past 3 months and get 1-3
sets from at least 4 different dancers. I read this board and
only remember two girls names - collette and lori. Any help
would be apprecicated.
To the moron who wrote about Camille and Cindy you have no idea about woman.This is the time when woman are moving into there prime. I see nothing wrong with either one of them. In fact i see beautiful woman that work hard to put up with your bullshit. Whoever wrote those comments is a very lonely person who gets no attention from them and is frustrated with the failures in their life.Its easy to say negative things and hide behind anonimity, but understand if everyone new who you were what would they say. Ladies ignore the ignorant because you two are truly beautiful. Lets shove the botox up that persons ass.
It does not matter if the girls really think that you are loser and dread the thought of you. How could you not be, a married man coming to a strip club. Or a single guy who can't hook up with a decent girl. As long as you pay they will try to make you feel like you are not the loser that you really are.
Excellent point about Natasha. Yeah, we all know "it's about the money" (how could we possibly miss it on this forum with all the philosophers expounding on it daily)....but...there's an old saying about "penny wise, dollar foolish." Those dancers who can make you feel, at the time, that it ISN'T "about the money", no matter what the reality is, are the ones who will continue to get my money. Ones like Natasha...who hit and run as the previous poster mentioned...I stopped giving them anything a long time ago. And the thing is, there ARE some really good girls who will play the game this way where they don't make you FEEL like just a money-giver, so don't waste your time on the Natashas.
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