Yo Helen-1st time in awhile since writing to you. Its changed quite a bit but still I come here every week to check things out. This week- money issues :VIP vs. champ. room. Yawn....See you tonite I hope. Miss u diva-----see you soon.
The Champ Room is worth every penny IF you KNOW the dancer will treat you right once you get up there. Thus, I take girls for test drives in the VIP. If I get a good vibe, I'll take them upstairs. If I don't, it's over quick.
For the girls you already know, the Champ Room is the best. In my experience, if they like you and get the vibe that you'll be a regular customer with resources, there are quite a few that will take you to that "special place" (mostly mental) and make the trip upstairs worthwhile -- to name a few: Brandy, Ciera, Natasha, Danielle, Milan, Aurora, Leila.
However, one should never spend money that one cannot afford to part with. So ..... choose wisely.
What if you take home $1500 per week and 2-3 have small children?
What if you take home $2000 per week and are in debt up to your eyeballs?
What if you are a 'LOSER" as nearly all the dudes who come into HB are?
$200 for 12 songs compared to 20 in the VIP. The Club likes it because of their quick $50 CUT. Girls like it upstairs because they can rest, sit, take off those 4" heels. Some hot babes dislike it because they make more, with extra tip, in the VIP if they WORK IT. No matter how you add it up, you get much more for your $$$ in the VIP rm. Privacy? At HB? Does that mean there are 8 cameras instead of 12 on you? Some girls drag guys upstairs. Of course, some guys beg girls for dances. Please! Take my Money honey! Please! Thats what I tell Farrah every time I see her.
If you get the dances in sets of 5 downstairs they are topless at $10 each. They give you a yellow card when you walk in that provides the dance prices. Downstairs is $10 a dance. Upstairs it costs $16.67 a dance. Do the math.
I thinks its a good deal. If you are short cash I think you are better off going to HBs less often but going to the CR when u go there. Once you do a CR with a dancer they tend to remember you and you will get more small talk beforehand.
She just started working Sunday's, the last 2 week's she was never there before that on Sunday's.More girl's are showing up on Sunday to bad customer's don't.This place is a ghost town on Sunday night.
I think there is a difference between being an addict having an addiction. Being an addict in my book is a step beyond addiction. As far as how much you have to spend to be an addict, well I guess that all depends on how much you have and what you are willing to do in order to obtain more money so you can go to the strip club. An addict in my book would spend the vast majority of his money in the club and think of new ways he could get money so he could go to the club and spend it.
interesting question. 99% of the time you get basically the same thing as you get downstairs. If you really like a girl and are going to spend that amount of money and time on her anyway... then its probably a good deal. Half hour uninterupted. Most of the girls like talking for a while though... so if you just want them to dance the whole time... just tell them. (hey its your 200$)
A lot of guys go several times a week in for the cheap food and drinks and don't spend any money on the dancers. Those guys aren't addicts...its just a better deal than Hooters. A decent cigerette habit or drinking habit costs about $3500 to $5000 so if your averaging $80 to $100 a week on LAP DANCES, I would say you are an addict.
Ok. Everyone please only respond once. I will tabulate the results and post the numbers. How much does someone have to spend as an average per week at strip clubs to be considered an addict? Reply with a dollar amount and include the word survey in the title. This should be interesting. PLEASE only respond once.
Damn, who was that stripper with a bad case of "fudge thong" tonight?!? I mean WTF was that, if you want to make money? I guess maybe she caters to the customers with a statological fetish. Nothing like customer service. As for me, as soon as I saw that shit [literally!], my penis sent a message to my brain that he was purely on beer disposal duties for the night. I sure as hell wasn't going anywhere near that rank box! Have fun guys! Oh, and CU Next Tuesday... Yeah right, you funckin' CUNT!
You now have a new customer. You can only be lied to for so long. The two of you have always been honest.Plus you know how to dance.Your both gorgeous and know how to have fun.I am your secret but not so secret admirer.
Leila did you see J.P. See you soon.
You look veddy veddy nice as a brunette. Great choice. White jacket, flowers, tomato juice what a lucky woman. Dior boots chinchilla jackets are in your future. Forget the past look toward the future.I hope to be there.Dont forget im 62.
Hey guys, vote for me on the stripper Hot or Not link . . . . . .please, pretty please with Cum on it for me to lick off
If you know where I work, cum up to me and say you saw me on this site and voted me a 10 and I'll give you what you want !
Our contribution will be your salvation. This forum is exactly the place to save those who have wandered in the wrong direction. Your salvation and the happiness of your families will be all of our reward.
This philosophy and "do-gooding" is making my head spin. This isn't the place for it. This a review board for rating the dancers and experiences of the club, not a place to save your soul. I would suggest if you REALLY think this business is evil, start your own path to righteousness by stopping your coming to a strip club forum and go to the cancer research forum or maybe a save the whale forum or something so you can contribute to something important.
I think many of the dancers would quit if they could. They recognize the problems. The biggest obstacle is their dependency on the money. They don't have the ability to earn the kind of money they make at HB anywhere else.
You are in a unique position to convey a message that the HB dancers need to hear, with a credibility that no one but an ex-dancer could have. Have you ever thought of doing that directly and personally? You could really have an impact on someone?s life. The info on the links you posted is really good stuff.
You do realize that most dancers actually hate it when *that* happens, right? And even if anybody has such a list, I don't think it would be very bright to post that here. Kind of like posting the names of dancers who give *extras* in the club. Nothing good can come of sharing that information on a public forum. All that said, there are a few dancers who try to entice customers by saying "I'll make you cum" or something like that. So just wait until she finds you, or you find her... Then again, you might just want to try getting laid in the real world.
I was wondering if this place is better than dancers or diamonds in west chicago. I haven't been to a strip club in a couple of years. I use to go to dancers all the time but two of my favorite girls left and the place got boring.
Relax, dude. She's probably just off work for like 6-weeks getting her boob job. That's what she was talking about last time I saw here there. And last I heard, I think she was talking about having them done in September.
I find your post to be quite hopeful, because of it?s honesty, the realization that the recovery will be tough, and your reliance on god. i hope others (both dancers and customers) open their eyes like you did. god bless you, my dear. your post is the best thing i've ever seen here.
Good to see someone taking the high road. I hope your comment about the X dancer was a joke albeit in very bad taste. If it was not seek immediate help. If it was seek immediate help. To the X-dancer: Good luck to you, I am sure that you will find what you are looking for. To all of the current dancers who believe that deception and dishonesty will not come to haunt them. Good luck to you because you are going to need it.
Going to a strip club is entertainment, just like going to a baseball game. You get emotionally attached to the girls and you get emotionally attached to the team, just look at how Cubs' fans reacted after some poor dufus caught a foul ball in a playoff game. It's just the way life is. No one preaches that baseball is bad for you. When one goes to a strip club, he is SUPPOSED to expect "lies" and "leading ons." If you don't, then you're just a fool. Stop making it to be more than it is. Its entertainment that you pay for and it's the stripper's JONB to make you feel "like it's real." If you can't tell perception from reality or you spend more than you should, it's not the stripper's fault. It's yours for being stupid.
Through your faith in god????????????????? ha! god sent you there to be the usless fucking whore that you were ment to be. go tell someone who gives a fuck about your stupid story. dance for me, cunt!!!
That?s a pretty na´ve statement. Any dancer who has regulars is leading them on in some way ? at the very least by making it seem as if she has a personal interest in them, at worst by making outright promises she never intends to keep. All regulars are sex or relationship addicts, so pretty much every dancer, is feeding on mental illness. Many even know it and admit it, but you dancer friend are probably just not forthright about it, or don?t have enough between the ears to realize it. The ex-dancer who confessed to it on the board, just has a tighter grip on reality than your dancer buddies. I find it somewhat admirable. I find you to be clueless.
it said more about her than the rest of it.If she was that way that was her choice.Just like being a thief.I know many girls who aren't that way and dance.They are fun to be with, don't play games and don't take advantage of people, but you do have to watch out for the many that do.
Nice to see an honest assessment of what the lifestyle was like and what it did to you. There's a few people on the customer side and the dancer side that are struggling to pull away from this, and your direct statements confirm what we suspect. It's helpful to hear. Best wishes on your efforts in the "clean" world.
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